Chapter of life #12(Money)

Money?
Okay, so im not going to start with an introduction, cause it basically doesnt need it! Ill get right to the point..

SOME people think that just because they have money, they're rich!
Money isnt the only thing that makes you rich in this world!
They believe we have money, we could do whatever we want. Disrespect people who dont have as much money as us!
Thats just sick, just because someone doesnt have money, it doesnt mean they're any less than you! They might actually be richer than you! They have a better attitude and behavior! That simply makes them richer than you! They might be better 3end Allah!
So dont treat people less, just because they dont have as much money!


Look at it this way, if you were someone with no money, would you want to be treated any differently? Ofcourse not, so just treat others the way you want to be treated..


Theres something else id like to mention, if you have money, why not use it in a benefitial way? In other words, give money to the poor!

Speaking about money, id like to mention one thing as well, just cause you have money and wear the highest brands, doesnt mean you should judge people who dont wear very high brands!
You look at them and think "Oh they're not wearing this, so they must be poor, and i shouldnt treat them well"

Some people wont spend a ton of money on something everyone has, even if they have all the money in the world!
Oh & one last thing, stay away from flous il7aram! Okay for example, someone asked you to do something bad in exchange for money, you did it! Whats the point? Its better to live as a person with enough money, than to have tons of 7aram money! cause flous il7aram ma tathmer!

Ya nas keep in mind, btt7asbon 3ala hatha!

You have money? gulaw il7mdllah, some people dont have a single penny and are dying right now! You're sitting in a place, a roof on top of your head! Thats a blessing some people would do anything for!


 (وَلا تُبَذِّرْ تَبْذِيراً إِنَّ الْمُبَذِّرِينَ كَانُوا إِخْوَانَ الشَّيَاطِينِ وَكَانَ الشَّيْطَانُ لِرَبِّهِ كَفُوراً) 

she's gone #11

A face i knew..

A familiar face actually. 

Very familiar..

Those eyes..
That sparkle..
those were the eyes i loved..
the eyes i fell for..
the eyes i couldnt get over..

He didnt change a bit.. he just looks.. tired..

He was probably as shocked as i was..
I stood there, no words could come out..
All i was thinking is what does he have to do with Fay?

Abdullahs POV:
Its her..
I never thought id see her again after the way i hurt her..
She still looks beautiful..
She didnt change a single bit..

Back to Reema:
He let me in and i sat..
Still no one said a word..
So i decided to break the silence..
Me: I just came to ask what you have to do with Fay and Maha..
Abdullah: Ill tell you everything..
Remember the day i hurt you? The way i left you for 'no reason'? Fay was the reason..

I had to break up with you in order to save you. Makes no sense right? Maha payed me. You knew how desperate i was at that point and how much i needed money. So i agreed withouteven  thinking. She asked me to hire some stranger to tell Fay that he was going to get back at her sister for what she did to him, when in reality her sister didnt do anything. Maha hated them both so bad. She asked me to tell the man to tell Fay that Sarah was in a relationship with him and was willing to do anything for him. When in reality, Sarah never even met the guy. 

So the next day Maha called Fay and told her that she could help her. 

Fay went there hoping she really could, but Maha just made it even worse. At first , she kept blaming her for everything and telling her how everything that ever happened to Sarah was her fault..

Fay wanted all this to end, one way or another. 

Maha gave her one condition in order for that to happen..

kill someone..

Who is that person? 

I have no idea..

But wait, theres much more to the story..

wanna know what the most shocking part is?...

she's gone #10

Reema's POV:

i was walking home.. convinced with what Maha told me. I mean she wouldnt lie would she? 

My phone rang a second later indicating me that i just got a message. It was an unknown number. They said..

"What maha told you was a lie"

i was shocked at first, but then i thought maybe its just someone messing with me. But who would do that. 

I called the number..

But they hung up. 

The person sent another text. 

Im Maha's brother. To know what really happened call this number. 

I immediatly called the number. 

Me: Hello

..: Hi?

Me: (I started explaining the story)

..: You really expect me to tell you the truth without anything in return?

Me: What do you want?

..: Ill think about it and call you back later. 

I couldnt wait and called Maha's brother. Im sure he knew what really happened. 

Majed(Maha's brother): I cant tell you.. i promised maha to never tell what really happened. Just wait for the guy. Im sorry. 

My phone rang a few minutes later:

..: Want to know the whole truth? Come to this address.(...)

I didnt want to go. I couldnt. I didnt have a good feeling about this, but i had to do it for Sarah.. even if it cost me myself. 

his house was in the middle of nowhere. It didnt even look like a house.. it was more of a garage. My legs were seriously shivering. I knocked the door and waited..

The door opened.. and i was surprised to see.......

To be continued!

Just to mention #15 will probably be the last post. and will post another post tomorrow maybe! & answers will be in the next 3 posts ;)

Chapter of life #11 (Hate)

First of all i wanted to mention this topic was suggested by someone and they needed this post so bad, so i thought of posting it, and posting jealousy next week x

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Hate? Some people might think what kind of topic is this? What is there to talk about? 

There's so much to talk about actually. 

Hate, just like love, is a strong word. Its also quite a normal feeling! 

When people hate someone, they usually go beyond the limits. They start doing all these bad things to them etc..

You hate someone? Dont disrespect them. Its not their fault you dont like them. 

& one more thing, hating someone for their looks is sick. Some people go "oh she's ugly, i hate her" seriously? You two were made equally! You have no right to hate someone for their looks! because Allah is the one who created them, the same way he created you. Got it?

Anyways, Why do people hate? 

One of the MAIN reasons people hate each other is jealousy! They feel someone is better than them, they start hating them. 

Another reason, people hate others for their culture and religion! you have no right, just cause a person isnt like you or doesnt have the same culuture or religion as you, that doesnt give you a reason to hate them!!

There are too many reasons, i could go on and on! But this is not the reason i wrote this post, the reason is to stop hate!

How to stop hating people?

Not so easy right?

But everything takes time, so just bear with it. 

Think about it.. First of all find out WHY you hate that person. Is it worth it? Hating someone, feeling stressed about it and making them feel bad? 

Try giving that person a chance, you might end up loving them, you just never know. 

Look at it this way, what would this world be like without hate? Perfect huh? So yeah..

I read this one post and i loved it so muchh.. just read it.. i know its quite long.. but its worth it. i promise. 

www.lovepanky.com/my-life/relationships/how-to-deal-with-hate 

 

Chapter of life #10 (self-confidence/believing in yourself)

First of all, Confidence! What is confidence?

Confidence is defined as having faith and believing in somone and their ability in doing something..

But i strongly believe that you cant believe in others if you dont believe in yourself. You have to have faith in yourself in order to have faith in other people. That's self confidence. Having faith in YOURSELF! & Keep in mind.. if you dont have faith in yourself, no one will have faith in you!

Soo..

Look at yourself, do you believe in yourself? Would you call yourself a confident person? 

People look at it as such an easy thing. they go like: Why arent you confident, believe in yourself. They say it like its an easy thing to do. 

I gotta admit.. its not the easiest thing on earth. 

It takes time to build confidence. 

Its not one of those things that would build itself overnight. 

Its something you need to work hard to achieve..

But as they say, nothing is impossible. 

Start by having a strong personality. Dont let what people say affect you. Keep in mind you're better than that. 

Keep telling yourself you're a strong person and you'll actually start believing it!

When it comes to confidence, self confidence in particular, you have to recognize all your insecurities in order to start accepting them. remember that imperfection is beauty. 

Think positively and have faith in yourself. Love what you do. Believe that you're capable of achieving whatever you set your mind to! 

& most importantly: STOP COMPARING YOURSELF TO OTHERS!

A strong personality automatically leads to self confidence. Keep that in mind..

"Self confidence is the most attractive quality anyone can have. How can anyone see how great you are, if you cant see it yourself" 

(& as a continue to this post, the next post will be about "being yourself")

Chapter of life #9 (Ramadhan)

رمضان❤️

It hurts seeing people only care about the food and fun in ramadhan! I mean thats not wrong. But think of the great things that ramadhan offers for you!

Enzayn enas ily ma y9alun, 7awlaw atleast tabdun t9alun ib ramadhan! Lana itha bas t9umun whats the point! Tara i9alat aham shay! 9alaw ba3dayn 9umaw!

i9alat aham ilfruth! shfaydat 9yamkum etha ma 9laytaw? 

w ana ma afham enas ely yaf6run ib ramadhan 3abalhm ma7ad byshufhm. rabkum foug! rabkum yshuf kel shay! kel ma ishay6an ywaswes estghfraw!

kha9e9aw wagt 7ag rabkum! 

egraw quraan! Mu gam agulkm khtmuh! ohwa a7san lo takhtmun, 7awlaw takhtmun, bas 7ata lo ma gdartaw 3ady! Bas egraw a few pages a day, that's it!

Take advantage, ed3aw zyada, 9alaw zyada! Tara hashahar maku mthlaa! 

7awlaw kethr ma tgdrun ena tsawun ilkhayr! mathalan 9ada8aa, ay shay tgdrun takhthun 3alayh 7asanat. 

Tara hashahar mu bas 7ag musalsalat w sleeping all day w 6al3a all night. 

Mu gam agulkm la tstanson, bl3aks!

Have fun bas also ed3aw. 

Adry enaa ramadhan nights a7laa shay, w mafeeha shay! i LOVE ramadhan nights, awnas shay!

Mafeeha shay etha kh9astaw shwaya mn wagtkm 7ag rabkum! w ba3dayn stansaw kthr ma tabun!

Honestly ana wa7da ma afham shlon enas ynamun mn isa3a 6 lain ilathan! 

Adry ena tgron quraan ilfayer w tad3un wagta.. bas kel ma tzeedun kel ma a7san!

ma tadrun ay 7asana btdakhelkm iljana! 

 (اللهم إني نويت أن أصوم رمضان كاملا لوجهك الكريم إيمانا واحتسابا اللهم فتقبله مني واغفر لي فيه وبارك لي فيه وزدني علما)

و مبارك عليكم الشهر💗

Chapter of life #8 (Love/Teenage Relationships)

I know that i will probably get so much hate on this post.. but this is my point of view. Everyone has a different opinion, and i totally respect your opinion! If you have any hate comments, please keep them to yourself, and thankyou x
&honestly at first i was hesitating.. i didnt wanna post this post lana i didnt think i could handle all the hate! But i guess after a while of thinking i decided to post it w allah yaster x



Love? What is Love?
Love is just a strong feeling of affection.
I strongly believe that Love is based on many things. If these things dont exist, there is no love!
First and most importantly, trust and hoensty! I strongly believe that there is no love without trust! You have to trust the person you love. You have to be hoenst with them, ALWAYS!
Second, caring! If you dont care for that person you love, you really dont love them!

I believe that these are two most important things! There are other important things as well such as, making you feel like a better person, understanding etc..

Love comes in many shapes and forms! You can love your parents, your soulmate, your friends!

But today ill be talking about relationship love..mainly teenage relationships..

I personally am not with relationships at teenage years. Im one of those people who believe that any love at this age, isnt love. Its just a small crush! Okay, true love at this age MIGHT exist, but its quite rare.
I believe that it is a wrong thing.
Its not 7aram to love.. love is something every person goes through in their lives. Its a feeling everyone experiences, quite normal!
But getting in a relationship? Thats where mistakes begin..

Okay, maybe true love might show up at this age? But will it take you anywhere? 90% of the time it wont! You might marry that person you get in a relationship with, but doesnt always go that way!

So why risk it all?
Why risk your family's trust?
Why risk your reputation?

Nowadays, people dont care! Ma7ad byaster 3alaykum! Lazem tastrun nafskum!

Stay away mn ilghala6 w il7aram..
la tkhalun ishay6an ywaswes!


Most teens usually between the age of 14-16, believe that they found their 'soulmates'! But wanna know what really worries me?
Seeing 11 and 12 year olds who dont know that much about life, being in their third relationship thinking its the right thing to do!

Think of it this way.. is it all worth it?
Can't you wait a bit?
True love will come when the time is right!
And relationships is never the right way!

Players are many nowadays. with 2 words, you can be fooled!
So always be careful!


I hear people saying 'ilawlad yl3bun 3ala banat inas blah blah', but hoenstly? mu bas ilawlad.. fe banat as well!
W people who play on others? tara edenya dawara.. keep that in mind!

Its your teenage years.. mistakes are made!
Try avoiding these mistakes

9a7abtaw mara? khala9 ily 9ar 9ar! Just try avoiding it and dont do it again
Because this will not only put your reputation on the line, but your family's as well!

Love will come when the time is right, trust me


(& i know so many people wont like this post, and im sorry! bas this is MY point of view! Everyone has a different point of view, and i respect yours, so please respect mine! Oh and I RESPECT people who are in relationships! Kel wa7ed 7ur ib7ayata! Bas im just stating my opinion! Bas deeraw balkm x)